Often you get these kinds of question. Almost silly, how you got a certain result or a very popular one such as how do you do it? In other situations you hear things such as your lucky which in my eyes means I was chosen for this thing to happen to me and reason for having it is because of luck and reason for themselves not having it is because of bad luck? It all boils down to the mindset
They isn't any such thing as luck, its either you put effort to make it happen or be a spectator to those that are doing it. The phrase "Asking but not willing" comes to my mind because they always ask the questions, want to know what you did but here's the funny part ... they wanted the answer to something that doesn't seem so basic or so practical. They aspect some sort of magical answer. In addition once they hear the secret / answer they aren't even willing to consider it. It's too much in their eyes. They call you lucky when those individuals are the ones that want the magic pill. The mission becomes to be willing to either accept the truth or do something to change it. Let's be honest most folks are " Asking but not willing" Below I'll talk more about how to get around it
Execute by having inner motivation so strong you first begin the quest on what it takes. We truly all know what it takes but those that separate themselves are the individuals that don't need to take shortcuts. In order to be in great shape you have to exercise and eat healthy. In order to be an influence on social media you have post religiously not only on one platform but on multiple. You can't worry about what people think because here is a fact ... they don't want what you want and for those in the middle they" Asking but not willing" Separate yourself and begin by finding that motivation to start, then persevere , be discipline, have expectations and goals to keep growing in what you chose to do
There's about 3% of people that will actually be willing to do what it takes. We know what's require, how come multiple aren't taking the action? It's because of laziness, no discipline, entitlement, lack of appreciation etc... The questions and statements you'll often come across is a reflection of either a lack of drive, understand and assertiveness. It's difficult for everyone that has done it before us but yet we don't take advantage? We got the support, we got the resources, the information .. be the 3% and use it
If you are going to ask a question you know the answer to, you're only hoping there's an easy way out. There's no secrets. Stop stalling , you either take action or you don't. Too much emphasis on genetics, up bringing, luck and just a crazy fixation on things that don't really matter. What does someone else's circumstances have to do with you not taking action? There's people like Terry fox, Jim kwik, Micheal Jordan, Dwayne Johnson and Arnold that only took action instead on get fix on why others are doing better. Make your own commands and control what is within your control. That's yourself. If you are going to ask be ready to be willing. Truth hurts but it also sets you free. Asking but not willing still? I hope not. Like always get better everyday
"Optimize Yourself"
Yours Truly
Mulo Motivation